I've made it through another week! I do plan to turn in early though.
Want to spend some time reading the Bible and praying for my kids. Tomorrow is going to be a big day. Going to have to deal with attorney in the afternoon while trying to take care of the rest of my life.
Then I have the WHOLE WEEKEND to relax and serve at the same time. Part of me wants to go into solitary confinement this weekend and no one would blame me given my circumstances and the situation with the pending divorce, etc.
Part of me wants to be alone. I'm one of the kind of people who recharges when she is by herself. I'm not a people person - I'm not energized by being around people. For me, I literally require time by myself or I get easily stressed out. It's only taken me 39 years to be okay with this. It's okay; not only that it was the way I was created. God knew this about me. Before time began.
Funny now I come home and when I used to talk to friends on the phone and watch thousands of hours on the television, now I just want to write and write and write. Now I look at Facebook and this blog as my own little mission field. Reaching one heart at a time. Someday perhaps God will give me a bigger venue to tell of His greatness but for now, this is it!
With that I bid you goodnight. This girl's going to bed.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Forgiven
I write a lot about forgiveness because it's such an important topic and one that I have had struggles with over the years. I once had to write down all my resentments to do a step in a program and I had 10 pages, single spaced, typed out. My sponsor had not seen anything quite like it before. To say that I remember everything is (basically) true. I have some memory gaps due to a medical issue but for the most part my mind is like a steel trap door.
It's one thing to remember everything but it's quite another to hold onto it. Yes, you know what I'm talking about. The little resentment that festers, that grows until it's blown out of proportion and becomes a major problem. Do not let the sun go down on your anger says the Bible. To me that means, deal with each day's problems THAT DAY and do not carry them from day to day to day. In other words resentment is not Biblical, not even sorta kinda at all. It's just sin.
I hung onto resentments for years. Some against friends, some against family, some against my spouse at the time, some against my kids probably too. Resentments will eat you alive from the inside out. They are like having a rotten gut.
So lets talk about the options. The solution. God provided it for us, it's called FORGIVENESS and He believed in the idea so much that He sent His only Son down to earth to die FOR US, for our sins, for our resentments. Then He offers this gift of forgiveness out for us to have. It's a free gift. We can't do anything to deserve it or earn it. It's just free. I think the best things in life are free. At least they don't cost ME anything.
So a while back I let some of my resentments go about my failing marriage and the other person involved. I prayed and realized that I was really resentful against GOD more than against anyone down here. I was indignant that the Almighty God I've served my whole life did not choose to fix my marriage but instead is letting me experience the natural consequences of sin.
I gave it to God. I gave my soon to be ex to God too. Heck I even prayed for any lady my soon to be ex is dating because if she's going to be in my children's lives I need her to be strong. If she's to have a chance at a good marriage with my ex, she will need to be well, different, than me.
I'm so thankful and grateful that God gives me this amazing gift that I just have to reach for. Forgiveness. Forgive others. Forgive God. Forgive yourself. I had to actually forgive myself for many many things.
After the forgiveness comes the amazing grace, falling from Heaven into the depository of our hearts. God, I thank you for sending your Son Jesus to forgive my sins and I pray that You will help me to be more forgiving of others and more forgiving of myself. Thank you for forgiving me as far as the east is from the west. That concept continues to blow my mind. How amazing. Only God could think of that. Unbounding forgivness.
It's one thing to remember everything but it's quite another to hold onto it. Yes, you know what I'm talking about. The little resentment that festers, that grows until it's blown out of proportion and becomes a major problem. Do not let the sun go down on your anger says the Bible. To me that means, deal with each day's problems THAT DAY and do not carry them from day to day to day. In other words resentment is not Biblical, not even sorta kinda at all. It's just sin.
I hung onto resentments for years. Some against friends, some against family, some against my spouse at the time, some against my kids probably too. Resentments will eat you alive from the inside out. They are like having a rotten gut.
So lets talk about the options. The solution. God provided it for us, it's called FORGIVENESS and He believed in the idea so much that He sent His only Son down to earth to die FOR US, for our sins, for our resentments. Then He offers this gift of forgiveness out for us to have. It's a free gift. We can't do anything to deserve it or earn it. It's just free. I think the best things in life are free. At least they don't cost ME anything.
So a while back I let some of my resentments go about my failing marriage and the other person involved. I prayed and realized that I was really resentful against GOD more than against anyone down here. I was indignant that the Almighty God I've served my whole life did not choose to fix my marriage but instead is letting me experience the natural consequences of sin.
I gave it to God. I gave my soon to be ex to God too. Heck I even prayed for any lady my soon to be ex is dating because if she's going to be in my children's lives I need her to be strong. If she's to have a chance at a good marriage with my ex, she will need to be well, different, than me.
I'm so thankful and grateful that God gives me this amazing gift that I just have to reach for. Forgiveness. Forgive others. Forgive God. Forgive yourself. I had to actually forgive myself for many many things.
After the forgiveness comes the amazing grace, falling from Heaven into the depository of our hearts. God, I thank you for sending your Son Jesus to forgive my sins and I pray that You will help me to be more forgiving of others and more forgiving of myself. Thank you for forgiving me as far as the east is from the west. That concept continues to blow my mind. How amazing. Only God could think of that. Unbounding forgivness.
Monday, November 15, 2010
Unexpected Peace in the Middle of the Storm
Today I had unexpected peace. I got up this morning and kept thinking "I can do all things through Christ" and DID. I worked hard, dealt with my attorney on issues needing to be changed or added to the final papers. I cancelled a meeting with a family member in lieu of having lunch with him tomorrow instead. I'll probably have to cancel as my lunch hour is the only time I have to work on my legal case. But the issue is with my family and they are important.
Sitting here tonight, had the hardest three weeks of my life the last three weeks. I mean, I've had some hard ones in the last two years and the years before that. It was hard, very hard, but instead of quitting I kept going and just gave it all back to God to control and run.
This weekend I realized that I'd lost the joy the Lord put in me. But I regained it through the celebration of a life of an old friend who loved Jesus...and others. I also regained it by laughing with my children. By playing follow the leader in the cold autumn air at a local park. By having frozen yogurt at a fun new spot. By giggling, laughing, cooking together, cleaning together, being a family. Being with my children brings me back to what's important in my life. After God my life has been about them.
I've gained and lost friends recently. I'm not sure I fully understand it but know that God is in control still. I have behaved badly a while back and fear that I hurt some. My tongue is such trouble for me. I read James a lot. Apparently not enough. My tongue has gotten me into more problems over the years. As recent as probably a week or two ago I fear that I said something and alienated a friend.
I'm sitting here almost in stitches because my cat is snoring so loudly and it sounds like a song. It's really humorous. I resonate with her challenges as I also snore badly when I do not wear my CPAP machine for the sleep apnea.
I figure that if God continues to work in my life at the pace that He has the last couple of years; well, the world better look out because I might light it up with passion for Jesus. This has undoubtedly been the hardest two years, make that 5-6 years I've ever had so far. I've gone from the despondency of being suicidal multiple times to the place where I'm at today, at the other end of the spectrum. I've just clung to God, even when I was in and out of the hospital a few years ago with depression. I knew that ending my life would be wrong yet I lacked the courage to live it. I was overwhelmed by poor health, depression and the reality that I was living in an abusive marriage and did not know it.
So here I sit, many years past, seems like forever on one hand and on the other it seems like just yesterday when the children were born and I was a young mother who had the pleasure of being a stay at home mom. Now I toil away, at a very hard and stressful job, still not quite supporting myself and I constantly wonder. What am I going to do in another year? The human side of me worries. Then I remember that God, the same God who put all the stars in the sky and named them intimately cares for me and promises to take care of me. I have had difficult financial times. I'd had to choose between food and medicine a couple of times a while back but slowly I feel like I'm gaining momentum. I would love a job someday maybe working with kids. Of course my dream job would be to be a mom again full time. I fear that I'll never have that again and that I'll only get to experience half of my kid's lives. Divorce took away what I most cared about (my children) and I've had to fight to get where I am now. I've learned how to work hard, work multiple jobs, how to take care of myself, but more than that, I've learned how to not take any single moment of my children's lives for granted. Each day with them is a gift to be cherished.
It's 8:15 and I am ready for bed. Might be God's way of telling me that it's time to turn in, go read His word before I drift off to sleep.
Lord I need more of You. I need your peace again tomorrow as I work with my attorney. I need your peace as I speak with my father. I need more of you tonight Lord. Watch over my children. Send an angel to watch over each corner of their beds until I can be with them again on Thursday. Protect us. Bless us with more of You. Infect us with your love for others. Lord help me to speak up to my friend at work who needs You Lord. I want to lead her to you but I haven't. Give me the courage and the words to speak to her.
Lord, please help me continue to keep my job and to be able to finish strong before I start my new position. Lord I need your strength to make it through the end of the year. Lord please provide for me so that I can move my things from our home into storage as I wait until Phase III. Lord I need you to provide for my financial needs so that I can afford the moving team, the packers, to get moved out in the time the judge allowed.
Lord work on my friend's hearts so that they will want to help me if they have time. I need a lot of help Lord and I feel so alone. Lord, just fill me with more of You.
Until next time,
Sitting here tonight, had the hardest three weeks of my life the last three weeks. I mean, I've had some hard ones in the last two years and the years before that. It was hard, very hard, but instead of quitting I kept going and just gave it all back to God to control and run.
This weekend I realized that I'd lost the joy the Lord put in me. But I regained it through the celebration of a life of an old friend who loved Jesus...and others. I also regained it by laughing with my children. By playing follow the leader in the cold autumn air at a local park. By having frozen yogurt at a fun new spot. By giggling, laughing, cooking together, cleaning together, being a family. Being with my children brings me back to what's important in my life. After God my life has been about them.
I've gained and lost friends recently. I'm not sure I fully understand it but know that God is in control still. I have behaved badly a while back and fear that I hurt some. My tongue is such trouble for me. I read James a lot. Apparently not enough. My tongue has gotten me into more problems over the years. As recent as probably a week or two ago I fear that I said something and alienated a friend.
I'm sitting here almost in stitches because my cat is snoring so loudly and it sounds like a song. It's really humorous. I resonate with her challenges as I also snore badly when I do not wear my CPAP machine for the sleep apnea.
I figure that if God continues to work in my life at the pace that He has the last couple of years; well, the world better look out because I might light it up with passion for Jesus. This has undoubtedly been the hardest two years, make that 5-6 years I've ever had so far. I've gone from the despondency of being suicidal multiple times to the place where I'm at today, at the other end of the spectrum. I've just clung to God, even when I was in and out of the hospital a few years ago with depression. I knew that ending my life would be wrong yet I lacked the courage to live it. I was overwhelmed by poor health, depression and the reality that I was living in an abusive marriage and did not know it.
So here I sit, many years past, seems like forever on one hand and on the other it seems like just yesterday when the children were born and I was a young mother who had the pleasure of being a stay at home mom. Now I toil away, at a very hard and stressful job, still not quite supporting myself and I constantly wonder. What am I going to do in another year? The human side of me worries. Then I remember that God, the same God who put all the stars in the sky and named them intimately cares for me and promises to take care of me. I have had difficult financial times. I'd had to choose between food and medicine a couple of times a while back but slowly I feel like I'm gaining momentum. I would love a job someday maybe working with kids. Of course my dream job would be to be a mom again full time. I fear that I'll never have that again and that I'll only get to experience half of my kid's lives. Divorce took away what I most cared about (my children) and I've had to fight to get where I am now. I've learned how to work hard, work multiple jobs, how to take care of myself, but more than that, I've learned how to not take any single moment of my children's lives for granted. Each day with them is a gift to be cherished.
It's 8:15 and I am ready for bed. Might be God's way of telling me that it's time to turn in, go read His word before I drift off to sleep.
Lord I need more of You. I need your peace again tomorrow as I work with my attorney. I need your peace as I speak with my father. I need more of you tonight Lord. Watch over my children. Send an angel to watch over each corner of their beds until I can be with them again on Thursday. Protect us. Bless us with more of You. Infect us with your love for others. Lord help me to speak up to my friend at work who needs You Lord. I want to lead her to you but I haven't. Give me the courage and the words to speak to her.
Lord, please help me continue to keep my job and to be able to finish strong before I start my new position. Lord I need your strength to make it through the end of the year. Lord please provide for me so that I can move my things from our home into storage as I wait until Phase III. Lord I need you to provide for my financial needs so that I can afford the moving team, the packers, to get moved out in the time the judge allowed.
Lord work on my friend's hearts so that they will want to help me if they have time. I need a lot of help Lord and I feel so alone. Lord, just fill me with more of You.
Until next time,
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Not Your Basic Cream of Wheat Day
Amazing day. Started out with Cream of Wheat with the kids for breakfast then baths, hanging out, lunch then getting all fancy to attend a memorial for a dear friend of my family who recently went to be with Jesus.
I wanted my kids to go to this memorial today for several reasons: (1) I wanted them to experience a memorial service of someone who was a believer in life and (2) I felt like it was important for them to share this with me. One of mine tonight told me "mom I've never seen you cry that much." To which I said "I cry all the time I just don't always show you." Then we talked about how the human part of us misses people when they die but if the person who died is a believer in God, a Christian, that it is also a time for rejoicing.
I was amazed. At one point during a praise song I looked over at my youngest and heard him/her singing along with every word to the song, and he/she can't even read yet! It humbled me and also made me extremely proud.
I have had one of the hardest weeks of my life this past week. There were times when I did not think that I literally could go on anymore. I wasn't depressed or despondent, I was literally just worn out. Worn down. Beaten down. Somehow, someway there is always enough grace for the next day. I get just enough sleep to cope with the stress.
Some of my family are mad at me because of a question that I asked my soon to be ex spouse the other day. I do not want to go back to him but I did need my question answered so that I could have closure. Well apparently it made my mom so upset she could barely cope and my dad is having a sit down to talk meeting with me on Monday night. I do not feel like I did anything wrong. I needed the closure. Now I have it and I can walk away knowing that I did my best. How in the world can a parent be mad at you/me for doing that? I feel not only that what I did was right, it was necessary for me to do in order to process the finality of the ending of this marriage.
I'm thinking: okay five minutes before I leave work I print out the divorce decree from the other side the other attorney emailed to my attorney who forwarded to me. I get done reading these papers and then I get in my car and my parents cancel coming to my child's party today and cancel eating with us. Because I asked my spouse if this was really the decision he wanted to make (divorce). I did nothing wrong; I spoke to my mother with respect and I frankly resent the fact that I have to go talk to my dad about the whole issue. I'm 39. If I wanted to get back with my husband I would have done it two years ago, not this week. I do not desire to go back to him or to the abuse. I have been set free and I am free indeed.
So I'm driving home, after my phone call and receiving my divorce decree. Thank God it was raining and took a while to drive to pick up the kids. I was able to place a call to one of my sisters in law who talked me through it and prayed for and with me. I literally did not know if I was capable of going on for another minute. I'm not saying I wanted to die that's not it. I was facing a weekend with my kids smack dab in the crux of the end of the divorce and my parents are mad at me. I had had enough. My boss was giving me grief because I requested time off to attend my kid's doctor's appointments. I have 80 hours of time off that is legally mine to take and I requested about 10 hours off in the next month so that I can attend these doctor's visits. My boss sent a veiled threat in an email and I had a half mind to take it to HR but then just took a lunch break, got some perspective, gave him the benefit of the doubt and just let it go. I have responsibilities in addition to working (I am a single parent now) and that includes taking care of your children's health.
I swear I can't take one more thing or I'm going to snap. So I pray. I pray and I pray and I pray for more of God. More of what He wants for me. Apparently right now He has me going through the fire. Watched a Veggie Tales movie with the kids tonight. The verse was "I can do all things through Christ." So I talked to my oldest about that and when my little one was brushing her/his teeth I asked her/him if he/she knew the verse and yes was the answer. I said that it was a good one to hide in your heart and your brain...a good one to remember.
So tonight the same God who gave David the courage to fight Goliath and the same God who protected Israel protects me. That concept rocks my world. Lord I need your supernatural healing because I'm just worn out. I do not think that I can face another day of the stress.
Lord I give it all to you. I accept the good and the hard from You and I trust that You are caring for my hurting heart and for my children. I give to you my marriage which is ending, I give to you my health (which isn't great), I give to you my job (which I am barely hanging onto), I give to you my children (who I can't have as much as I'd like right now). I give to you my worries about being able to provide financially for my children. Lord I pray that you would provide a job for me that would compensate me so that I can stand on my own two feet. Lord I thank you for my family, although imperfect, You knew that I needed THIS family and that is why you had them adopt me. We were chosen for each other. So enough of the pettiness. Life is too short to spend it being angry at anyone, deserved or undeserved.
Lord I life up the family of the man we honored today. Lord we miss him but know that You have healed Him and he is in a perfect body, in perfect health, probably playing a perfect round of golf on the fairways of gold and emeralds. Comfort his children Lord. I listened to them today and was so touched by the maturity of his kids and their intense love for the Lord. Lord, please give his wife comfort in a way that only you can at this time. She is very brave. They all are. So tonight Lord please comfort them.
Lord I give you my life, again, tonight, to serve You. Lord right now I feel like David facing Goliath and I feel like Goliath is winning and I'm scared and I'm tired and I'm lonely and I do not have the resources in me to cope with this level of stress. So I beseech you Lord to keep walking with me and I'd like to give you the load I've been carrying around. I can no longer do anything without you and so tonight again I just give it all back to you. The hurt, the anxiety, the worry, the sadness, the loneliness. All the ways the enemy has tried to use to defeat me, Lord I give them all back to you. You alone are worthy to be loved and served.
I must sleep now. It's 8:40. I must sleep.
I wanted my kids to go to this memorial today for several reasons: (1) I wanted them to experience a memorial service of someone who was a believer in life and (2) I felt like it was important for them to share this with me. One of mine tonight told me "mom I've never seen you cry that much." To which I said "I cry all the time I just don't always show you." Then we talked about how the human part of us misses people when they die but if the person who died is a believer in God, a Christian, that it is also a time for rejoicing.
I was amazed. At one point during a praise song I looked over at my youngest and heard him/her singing along with every word to the song, and he/she can't even read yet! It humbled me and also made me extremely proud.
I have had one of the hardest weeks of my life this past week. There were times when I did not think that I literally could go on anymore. I wasn't depressed or despondent, I was literally just worn out. Worn down. Beaten down. Somehow, someway there is always enough grace for the next day. I get just enough sleep to cope with the stress.
Some of my family are mad at me because of a question that I asked my soon to be ex spouse the other day. I do not want to go back to him but I did need my question answered so that I could have closure. Well apparently it made my mom so upset she could barely cope and my dad is having a sit down to talk meeting with me on Monday night. I do not feel like I did anything wrong. I needed the closure. Now I have it and I can walk away knowing that I did my best. How in the world can a parent be mad at you/me for doing that? I feel not only that what I did was right, it was necessary for me to do in order to process the finality of the ending of this marriage.
I'm thinking: okay five minutes before I leave work I print out the divorce decree from the other side the other attorney emailed to my attorney who forwarded to me. I get done reading these papers and then I get in my car and my parents cancel coming to my child's party today and cancel eating with us. Because I asked my spouse if this was really the decision he wanted to make (divorce). I did nothing wrong; I spoke to my mother with respect and I frankly resent the fact that I have to go talk to my dad about the whole issue. I'm 39. If I wanted to get back with my husband I would have done it two years ago, not this week. I do not desire to go back to him or to the abuse. I have been set free and I am free indeed.
So I'm driving home, after my phone call and receiving my divorce decree. Thank God it was raining and took a while to drive to pick up the kids. I was able to place a call to one of my sisters in law who talked me through it and prayed for and with me. I literally did not know if I was capable of going on for another minute. I'm not saying I wanted to die that's not it. I was facing a weekend with my kids smack dab in the crux of the end of the divorce and my parents are mad at me. I had had enough. My boss was giving me grief because I requested time off to attend my kid's doctor's appointments. I have 80 hours of time off that is legally mine to take and I requested about 10 hours off in the next month so that I can attend these doctor's visits. My boss sent a veiled threat in an email and I had a half mind to take it to HR but then just took a lunch break, got some perspective, gave him the benefit of the doubt and just let it go. I have responsibilities in addition to working (I am a single parent now) and that includes taking care of your children's health.
I swear I can't take one more thing or I'm going to snap. So I pray. I pray and I pray and I pray for more of God. More of what He wants for me. Apparently right now He has me going through the fire. Watched a Veggie Tales movie with the kids tonight. The verse was "I can do all things through Christ." So I talked to my oldest about that and when my little one was brushing her/his teeth I asked her/him if he/she knew the verse and yes was the answer. I said that it was a good one to hide in your heart and your brain...a good one to remember.
So tonight the same God who gave David the courage to fight Goliath and the same God who protected Israel protects me. That concept rocks my world. Lord I need your supernatural healing because I'm just worn out. I do not think that I can face another day of the stress.
Lord I give it all to you. I accept the good and the hard from You and I trust that You are caring for my hurting heart and for my children. I give to you my marriage which is ending, I give to you my health (which isn't great), I give to you my job (which I am barely hanging onto), I give to you my children (who I can't have as much as I'd like right now). I give to you my worries about being able to provide financially for my children. Lord I pray that you would provide a job for me that would compensate me so that I can stand on my own two feet. Lord I thank you for my family, although imperfect, You knew that I needed THIS family and that is why you had them adopt me. We were chosen for each other. So enough of the pettiness. Life is too short to spend it being angry at anyone, deserved or undeserved.
Lord I life up the family of the man we honored today. Lord we miss him but know that You have healed Him and he is in a perfect body, in perfect health, probably playing a perfect round of golf on the fairways of gold and emeralds. Comfort his children Lord. I listened to them today and was so touched by the maturity of his kids and their intense love for the Lord. Lord, please give his wife comfort in a way that only you can at this time. She is very brave. They all are. So tonight Lord please comfort them.
Lord I give you my life, again, tonight, to serve You. Lord right now I feel like David facing Goliath and I feel like Goliath is winning and I'm scared and I'm tired and I'm lonely and I do not have the resources in me to cope with this level of stress. So I beseech you Lord to keep walking with me and I'd like to give you the load I've been carrying around. I can no longer do anything without you and so tonight again I just give it all back to you. The hurt, the anxiety, the worry, the sadness, the loneliness. All the ways the enemy has tried to use to defeat me, Lord I give them all back to you. You alone are worthy to be loved and served.
I must sleep now. It's 8:40. I must sleep.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Another Day, Grateful
Another day has passed. I did not die from stress although I had high stress all day. My boss was giving me grief about requesting time off to attend my children's doctor's appointments. Seriously. I'm at the point that if I get pushed much more I'm going to blow up at somebody. I do not want that to happen. So I breathe, pray a lot and read my Bible.
I need to break it down into manageable parts. One hour at a time, one minute at a time. Until the next one, then do what is in front of me right then. Keep working as hard as possible even though the stress and pain seems unbearable.
I should go to bed before my early riser gets up! I've got one that's usually climbing into bed no later than 6 on the weekends. Oh well. I've got 10 minutes until lights out.
I've learned a lot about myself in the last couple of months. I started to remember. I started to remember who I really am. Then I continue to read about who Jesus thinks I am and take that to heart. The God of the universe, the one who spread the stars in the sky and named them all knows ME intimately. There are not words for that.
Although I know it's not my time, I cannot wait to get to Heaven. In Heaven I will be healed, in a perfect body with no aches and pains. My body will be glorified. I will worship at the throne singing Holy Holy Holy is the Lord God Almighty, who was and is and is to come. I cannot wait until that day. When I can meet up with those who have gone before me and we can rejoice with each other and with our Lord. Won't that be great? How long, O Lord? How long must we wait?
Come quickly Lord Jesus.
I need to break it down into manageable parts. One hour at a time, one minute at a time. Until the next one, then do what is in front of me right then. Keep working as hard as possible even though the stress and pain seems unbearable.
I should go to bed before my early riser gets up! I've got one that's usually climbing into bed no later than 6 on the weekends. Oh well. I've got 10 minutes until lights out.
I've learned a lot about myself in the last couple of months. I started to remember. I started to remember who I really am. Then I continue to read about who Jesus thinks I am and take that to heart. The God of the universe, the one who spread the stars in the sky and named them all knows ME intimately. There are not words for that.
Although I know it's not my time, I cannot wait to get to Heaven. In Heaven I will be healed, in a perfect body with no aches and pains. My body will be glorified. I will worship at the throne singing Holy Holy Holy is the Lord God Almighty, who was and is and is to come. I cannot wait until that day. When I can meet up with those who have gone before me and we can rejoice with each other and with our Lord. Won't that be great? How long, O Lord? How long must we wait?
Come quickly Lord Jesus.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Grant Me the Serenity
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change
The courage to change the things I can
and the wisdom to know the difference.
-amen-
Tonight I need just a taste of serenity. Please let the chaos stop so that I can have just a little bit of serenity. God I need the peace that only You can bring to my heart and my mind. There's no relief from this chaos down here Lord. I know that everything is in your Hands but my heart is tired and my body is weary and my mind just hurts. My heart was broken long ago and not so long ago again.
Lord I want to just rest in your arms tonight. I just want to be like a child huddled on the lap of her parent. I want to wrap my arms around you when I get to Heaven and I want to hear more than anything else I desire in this world "well done my good and faithful servant."
So tonight Lord could you give me more of You? Can you equip my heart with Teflon so that I can let the hurt just roll off of me?
Lord I want more of you. Help me through tonight. Give me your mercy and grace tonight Lord.
The courage to change the things I can
and the wisdom to know the difference.
-amen-
Tonight I need just a taste of serenity. Please let the chaos stop so that I can have just a little bit of serenity. God I need the peace that only You can bring to my heart and my mind. There's no relief from this chaos down here Lord. I know that everything is in your Hands but my heart is tired and my body is weary and my mind just hurts. My heart was broken long ago and not so long ago again.
Lord I want to just rest in your arms tonight. I just want to be like a child huddled on the lap of her parent. I want to wrap my arms around you when I get to Heaven and I want to hear more than anything else I desire in this world "well done my good and faithful servant."
So tonight Lord could you give me more of You? Can you equip my heart with Teflon so that I can let the hurt just roll off of me?
Lord I want more of you. Help me through tonight. Give me your mercy and grace tonight Lord.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Lyrics of a song
Tonight on my way home from counseling I was listening to a Christian song that had the lyrics "we are more than the sum of our mistakes" and I thought WOW. We need to be preaching this off the tops of buildings. We need to share the amazing and wonderful way God forgives us. How amazing and how much love he had for us that He sent his ONLY son (can you imagine, mothers?) to die on a cross for our sins.
I am NOT the sum of my mistakes. I have been forgiven, as far as the east is from the west, it says in the Bible. I love that verse and cling to it. When my past and the thoughts from my past and people are running their "tapes" through my brain, I just remember, I've given it all to God, asked forgiveness for my part in it all and I'M FORGIVEN. Not kinda, not sorta. Completely and totally.
Let that rock your world tonight. There is NOTHING anyone can do that will ever again change the way I see myself because for perhaps the first time in my life I see myself as God sees me. I am okay being me. I like me.
Lately a thing or two has gotten my focus off of the truth in my heart and in the Word. I am loved by God, blessed to be His and am beautiful inside and out. There is not one thing any one person can do to me to change that fact. For the first time in my life I'm okay being me. It took a bit of a total overhaul of my heart to get to this place and a lot of prayer and input from people.
So tonight if you're not feeling so great about who you are, if you are a Christian, CELEBRATE because you are one of God's chosen, you're beautiful. Just the way you are. Not 5 lbs from now. Not if this or that happens. Right now. You are exactly who God wants you to be at this very moment in your life. That doesn't mean that He won't ask for change if something needs it but tonight just rest in Him.
Friendships, relationships are just blips on the screen. Honestly it's going to take a lot more than a person to make me doubt who I am in Christ. It's going to take a lot more than being treated unfairly. No longer does my past have power over me. I've let it go. Not going to hang onto it anymore. God has given me new dreams in place of my shattered dreams. (for those of you who haven't read it, go buy the Larry Crabb book "Shattered Dreams").
I know my place, my purpose and my calling. I am at peace. Glory to God for that.
I am NOT the sum of my mistakes. I have been forgiven, as far as the east is from the west, it says in the Bible. I love that verse and cling to it. When my past and the thoughts from my past and people are running their "tapes" through my brain, I just remember, I've given it all to God, asked forgiveness for my part in it all and I'M FORGIVEN. Not kinda, not sorta. Completely and totally.
Let that rock your world tonight. There is NOTHING anyone can do that will ever again change the way I see myself because for perhaps the first time in my life I see myself as God sees me. I am okay being me. I like me.
Lately a thing or two has gotten my focus off of the truth in my heart and in the Word. I am loved by God, blessed to be His and am beautiful inside and out. There is not one thing any one person can do to me to change that fact. For the first time in my life I'm okay being me. It took a bit of a total overhaul of my heart to get to this place and a lot of prayer and input from people.
So tonight if you're not feeling so great about who you are, if you are a Christian, CELEBRATE because you are one of God's chosen, you're beautiful. Just the way you are. Not 5 lbs from now. Not if this or that happens. Right now. You are exactly who God wants you to be at this very moment in your life. That doesn't mean that He won't ask for change if something needs it but tonight just rest in Him.
Friendships, relationships are just blips on the screen. Honestly it's going to take a lot more than a person to make me doubt who I am in Christ. It's going to take a lot more than being treated unfairly. No longer does my past have power over me. I've let it go. Not going to hang onto it anymore. God has given me new dreams in place of my shattered dreams. (for those of you who haven't read it, go buy the Larry Crabb book "Shattered Dreams").
I know my place, my purpose and my calling. I am at peace. Glory to God for that.
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