Wednesday, April 8, 2009

9 years ago today

9 years ago today I got all dressed up in my wedding gown and walked down the aisle in front of about 75 of my friends and family.  I stood up before God and my people to declare my love for my husband.  

Fast forward 9 years.  I worked all day then went out for dinner with my folks.  It is harder to deal with than I first thought.  I want to say that it doesn't bother me, that it's just another day in the calendar but I ask you: is YOUR anniversary, birthday, etc just another day in your calendar?  I think not.  For me, I'm still married legally and that means that I'm in a weird situation.

I'm not all down in the dumps depressed, just sad.  I miss my family and my life with my husband.  No, I don't miss some of it.  Of course not.  

So I have a choice in the matter.  Live or dwell.  I choose to live.  One day at a time.  

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